Japanese Prayer Wall

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Monday, January 31, 2011

It's a small world after all

When I was younger, and not all that long ago too, I didn’t really care much for the news.  It was all a bunch of people arguing over politics and one depressing story after another about natural disasters, wars, and heinous crimes.  That description still suits the news today, but over time my perception has changed. 

I first moved to Japan just after graduating from college and was surprised by how much people in Japan knew about American politics.  More than once people assumed that because I was American, I must agree with all of President George W. Bush’s opinions.  I quickly realized that I needed to polish up on my political knowledge if for no other reason than to knowledgeably say that I agreed or disagreed with President Bush’s latest political views.  Fast forward a few years, and here I am in Japan again, trying to agree or disagree with a different president.  Thankfully there’s more to the news than just politics or else I’d quickly grow tired of trying to stay focused.

Unfortunately, many people only care about what is happening in their own city, state, and country; that is where their concern stops.  Living in another country and traveling to other countries helps me to see the people of the world as real, living and breathing individuals.  Now when I watch or read about the news, I find it harder to turn my back on the suffering of earthquake victims, human trafficking hostages, or martyrs.  Those are brothers, sisters, mothers, and fathers, not just statistics.  So, what are we supposed to do with all the pain and suffering that is happening in the world?  For starters, you can try to do what I do—pray your way through the news.  Don’t just learn about a horrific situation and the next minute return to your favorite T.V. show or your previously scheduled life.  Turn that concern over to God but also ask him if there is some kind of action that He is calling you to take.  Why not start today with the current situation in Egypt?  Instead of viewing the country as a whole, you can start by praying for my friends Stephanie and Paul Schick who are living in Cairo right now because Paul is doing his pastoral internship there.  Or, you can pray for the family of Maria, a former student, who has family living in Egypt.

One of my favorite scenes in the book Christy, by Catherine Marshall, is when Alice Henderson explains the importance of letting God pry our hands away from our eyes.  We can choose to go through life by covering our eyes to the pain and hardships all around us, or we can allow God to open our eyes so that we can see the people and the world around us the way that He does.  Although Christy is fiction, Alice is exposed to extreme hardships and suffering which reveal universal truths.  Alice says, “You want to know why seeing stark evil hasn't made me rough or bitter? Remember, I said it was God who was prying the little girl's hands off her eyes. As if He were saying, 'I can't use ivory-tower followers. They're plaster of Paris, they crumble and fall apart in life's press. So you've got to see life the way it really is before you can do anything about evil. You cannot vanquish it. I can. But in My world the battle against evil has to be a joint endeavor. You and Me. I, God, in you, can have the victory every time’” (Marshall).

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

The Outsiders

Recently I read two very interesting articles in The Japan Times about what it’s like living as a foreigner in Japan.  A person doesn’t have to live in Japan for long before learning to identify him or herself as a がいじん (gaijin or literally translated as “outsider”).  That’s when the questions really start rising.  How do you identify yourself?  How do you feel about being viewed as an “outsider”?  Have you experienced what it is like being in the minority before?  What makes you unique, and in what ways do you reinforce stereotypes about people from your country?  What do you want to hold on to in your existing identity, and what parts of a new culture do you want to embrace?  Every person answers these questions differently. 

The first article sought to show how three famous foreign men dealt with the challenges of living in Japan as outsiders.  While they shared some interesting insights, I think the real problem arose in expecting three people to represent all foreigners living in Japan.  Foreigners face unique adjustments, when moving to Japan, based on what similarities and differences exist between the Japanese culture and their own culture.  For example, at different points in history, Japan and China or Japan and Korea have strongly resented one another.  These politically based tensions may contribute to stereotypes or discrimination that other foreigners would not experience.  Likewise, men and women would naturally respond in different ways to a new culture, yet this article focused only on interviewing men.  I certainly do not agree with everything in this first article, but if you have the time, it is well worth it to see what insights and conclusions one could draw about foreigners living in Japan.
The second article was a series of comments people made as they agreed or disagreed with the first article.  Many people feel passionate about what it means to be a がいじん because, as I pointed out, every person responds differently to those difficult identity questions.  One idea that really stood out to me is the way people are so quick to judge other cultures, without examining their own culture through the same magnifying glass.  For example, in America we see people who are labeled as terrorists based on where they were born or people getting paid next to nothing for doing demanding physical work that many people would try their noses up at.  As we recently celebrated Martin Luther King, Jr. Day, can we honestly say that America is free of discrimination and that we are innocent of giving labels to identify others as outsiders?  Another point that made me smile was the comment, “Too many foreign residents make themselves miserable with constant complaints.  If I wanted everything to be as it was back home, I would have stayed there.”  I admit that I have been guilty of complaining about cultural differences at times, but when all is said and done, I am thankful for my many opportunities to learn about the Japanese culture.  As I meet and befriend people in Japan, I am also happy to point out that just like all foreigners have differences, Japanese people are unique in their own ways too.  So, for anyone who seeks to experience a new culture, the best plan is to stay open-minded about the individuals you meet as well as about yourself  as you grow and change (to varying degrees) in a new culture.  To read the many responses and comments related to the first article, you can check out the second article at this link.